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“Because on the one hand, angling yourself like this toward the total stranger sitting next to you is psychotic.  (Like, JUST FUCKING FACE FORWARD, dude.)”

I fly every few months for work and since these are usually short-ish flights between the Midwest and the East Coast early in the morning on weekdays, I am almost always seated next to other middle-aged business guys and, yes, I face forward.

But if on one of these flights I were seated next to the 2026 equivalent of Meg Ryan in 1989 I would have no choice but to angle toward her. I wouldn’t WANT to do it, just like this guy probably doesn’t WANT to do it and just like a plant doesn’t WANT to angle itself toward the sun. But it is what it is, man, you can’t put something that bright and warm out there and expect that it won’t affect everything else in the vicinity.

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This is the single movie I've watched the most in my life, my wife's and my origin story movie from late 1992, and we've watched it every New Year since, from the age Harry and Sally are when they leave Chicago to, well, much older now. We know it by heart, we know every line, we know and laugh at every detail - Sally's disgusted face on the plane when Harry does the fist-pump gesture asking if they'd done it in college; the detail that Harry's face is still red from the slap when they head back into the reception; the detail that Sally, and never Harry, drops the F-bomb (twice!). We quote it every chance we get (no matter the time of day, if the phone rings one of us will say "Nobody I know would call at this hour").

All-timer movie, great essay, thanks Shea!

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