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Wanda E.'s avatar

Resident Widow here. I lost my first husband 20 years ago. I would absolutely marry him all over again even knowing he dies not even 2 years into our marriage. The love and memories are worth the grief. Of course, I will grant that it's easier to say this in hindsight rather than how Louise experienced the knowledge.

Great movie. (I'm crying over here over the end and I'm just reading about it.)

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I love finding other people who dig this movie as much as I do. I read the short story by Ted Chiang first and while it is maybe my favorite short story ever, I think the movie is my favorite movie ever and they are so different in tone.

A writer I admire often talks about his love for “paperwork novels”—meaning we spend time with characters doing ordinary things (to them) that are maybe unfamiliar but definitely interesting to us. I need a term for art about language, it is pure catnip for me.

I also love Interstellar and I think of these two movies as talking to each other, if you will. Also, I think the concept of two pieces of art talking to each other originated in poetry, and then has been adopted across other media over time.

My kids, (14,14,12) haven’t seen Arrival and I’m waiting for a moment when they won’t accuse me of traumatizing them by making them watch it (let’s just say A Dog Named Skip will be mentioned in their future therapy sessions). But I think the message at the heart of this is so beautiful and watching it as a parent feels especially powerful, I think.

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